Persistence in Prayer
“You ought always to pray.”
Jesus taught us to pray. When you pray be more mindful of the One to whom you are praying than that about what you are praying. When you start, “Our Father…” pause and focus on to Whom it is you are praying.
If it helps you to envision Him as you address Him just focus on Him as a cloud of light, after all that is a description given Him in the Bible. Jesus is spoken of as the Light of the World. Once you are focused on the One being addressed, continue your prayer as addressing Him personally.
Some of His responses must be:
Which one of us is God?
You’ve got to be kidding.
And the saddest of all, I thought you would never ask.
Pray for Him to reveal His will to you, knowing He will once He sees in you the will to do it. Pray:
“Lord guide me, the sea is so big and my boat is so small.”
Often God guides through long and uncertain pathways. However, if we will follow, He will guide.
“Lord, free me from the pressure of doing great things in the world by being great in doing small things for you.
Help me to persist even though I want to give up.
Help me to keep trying even though I can’t see what good it does.
Help me to keep praying although at times I’m not sure You hear me.
Help me to keep living in a way that seeks to please You.
Help me to know when to lead and when to follow.
Help me to know when to speak and when to keep silent.
Help me to know when to wait and when to act.
Lord, please help me to hang on.
Please don’t let me give up.
Help me to remember that,
like the sun in the morning,
You come when it is time.”
Persist in prayer.
How to Encourage Yourself
Jesus Christ is the world’s greatest encourager. Even on the eve of His execution He encouraged them saying: “Let not your hearts be troubled….”
There are times we all need encouragement.
The Latin word for “courage” is “cour.” It is a reference to the condition of the heart. The devil comes along and puts a prefix, “dis” before courage. God has a big eraser. He erases the “dis” and replaces it with “en.” Hence, encouraged.
King David is a case study in discouragement and resulting encouragement.
David had made a series of serious mistakes. The situation is described in I Samuel 30. David was back-slidden, out of fellowship, and wayward. Without the guidance of the Lord, David made some critically disastrous decisions.
He was turned down by the Philistines when he tried to make a pact with them. His army was defeated, his home town burned, and the wives and children carried off. Then his army murmured about killing him. What is a person to do under those conditions? First Samuel 30:6 tells what David did and I commend it to you: “David encouraged (strengthened) himself in the Lord his God.”
How did David encourage himself? The same way you can be encouraged.
- He retreated, it is essential to get alone with God and let your mind marinate in His Word and on His will.
- He recalled God’s Word. Encouragement comes when life is so overcast you can’t remember what the sky looked like when it was blue, and you wonder if the sun will ever shine again.
Encouragement comes when we open God’s Word and He shows us everything is going to be alright.
Proverbs 12:25 tells us that “anxiety in the heart of a man causes depression, but a good word makes it glad.” Scripture affords such good words.
Scripture says, “Be still and know that I am God” (Psalm 46:10).
When you do, you will know “God is our refuge and strength…” (Psalm 46:1)
- He reflected. Reflect on previous occasions when you were discouraged and God encouraged you. Remember past times God helped you when you were helpless. David had many such occasions and so do you.
Encouragement needs good memories the same way a muscle needs exercise, the same way music needs notes.
Grateful memories of good things past feed encouragement.
Our encouragement in the present is rooted in our memories of the past.
- He requested of the Lord. He asked God what to do. Then …
- He responded to the Lord. He did so by doing what God instructed him to.
You can be restored and\or renewed using this same technique.
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9 ESV
How to Better Petition God
Following are Cliff Notes on Prayer 101.
Jesus said “When you pray…” That means do it, pray. Then He gave a model for prayer. It is not necessary that those exact words be prayed, but they serve as a model. It is also good to often pray the actual words on occasion. I pray them six or more times a day.
When you pray He said to pray, “Our Father….” We do not pray to God the Holy Spirit nor to God Jesus Christ, but to God the Father. There are all sorts of times, places, and forms of prayer. There should at least be a couple of times a day we engage in focused prayer.
No person knows what God looks like. Not having seen Him we can at best compare Him to something in our world of experience, a person. Envision yourself in the actual presence of God. He is spoken of in I Timothy 6:16 as God “who alone has immortality, dwelling in unapproachable light, whom no man has seen or can see, to whom be honor and everlasting power.”
Take time to do what the Quakers call “centering down.” I hear some people say “let’s just have a little prayer,” and they jump in with no focus. In centering down consider bringing into focus a brilliant glow that symbolizes His presence.
The most important thing I can tell you regarding prayer is concentration on the One to whom you are praying, not the thing about which you are praying. Envision yourself as being humbly in His presence respectfully talking to Him.
Jesus’ Model Prayer included these elements worthy of your inclusion.
PRAISE: “Our Father in heaven, Hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as in heaven.”
PETITION: “Give us this day our daily bread.”
PARDON: “And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”
PROTECTION: “Do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.”
PROFESSION: “For yours is the kingdom, and the power and the glory forever. Amen.”
He answers every prayer. One response might very well be, “Wait, which one of us is God.” You are after all petitioning Him, that is asking Him, not mandating Him.
Having a sense of humor He might answer some prayers, “You have got to be kidding.”
One response might be, “Wait a while.” Give God time to be God. Often the wait draws us closer to Him than the answer.
The saddest of all responses must be, “I thought you would never ask.”
At times we think God has not answered our prayers, forgetting “No” is an answer. Some of His best answers to some of my prayers has been no. When He says no I say thank you that in your love and wisdom you knew that was not best for me, so thank You for Your no.
Prayer can be offered in many different ways under various circumstances. The important thing is to pray. Pause now and commit yourself to Him as one resolute on purposefully praying to Him using these guidelines.
How Do You Know There Is a God?
Everybody has a sense of God consciousness. Oh, yes they do. Some believe in Him and sense a personal relationship with Him.
Others spend their time trying to deny His very existence. They can’t according to a basic law of logic which states you can’t prove a negative. To prove God doesn’t exist you would have to know all there is to know about everything and know that in that body of knowledge there is no God.
Suppose you knew ninety percent of all there is to know. Would it not be possible that in the unknown ten percent He exists? Even if you knew ninety-nine percent there is still the possibility of His existence in the unknown.
No one knows one hundred percent of all there is to know. Some persons indicate they are all-knowing and profess God does not exist. I know some such people and respect their opinion. They are gracious in response. A minority of such people attack the intellect and assault the very character of those who disagree with them. These are the evangelicals of no faith.
I had a friend who owned a large trucking company. He told me he required every potential driver to take a lie detector test before being employed. One question always asked was do you believe in God? He said there never was a person who said no that the test didn’t indicate they were lying.
God cannot be proven to exist. However, He has given us lines of logic leading to conclusions only answerable by His existence. Some are:
Where there is a law there is a law giver. Highway speed laws indicate someone made the law.
Inertia, gravity, and thermodynamics are laws in nature indicating there is a Lawgiver. Bio means life. Genesis means life. There is an irrefutable law of biogenetics that says life only comes from life. The existence of life indicates there is a Lifegiver.
Where there is design there must be a designer. The design of the human body indicates there is a Designer. The design of the universe such as the precise revolution of planets in orbit, and the earth’s rotation on its axis reveals design which demands a Designer.
The law of cause and effect speaks of God. For every effect there must be an equal or greater cause. The universe is the effect. It shouts of a greater cause —- God.
Blaise Pascal was a 17th century French mathematician/philosopher renowned for his work in calculus and author of the famed Pascal Wager. He held that the prudent person torn between atheism and belief should “bet” on the existence of God. The reason: If God exists, at death the prudent person will get a heavenly reward. If God does not exist, well, no harm done. If one bets against God’s existence and He does exist, well ….
You Have Not Because You Ask Not
Let me tell you a wonderful story regarding the answer to prayer. Stay with me, it will take a bit of time to share a related story.
Today I was looking through some things in a drawer and found a little booklet given to me by Bruce Bickel and signed, “I am glad we were called to serve Him together.” Bruce played quarterback at Navy following Roger Stauback and broke some of Roger’s records. Bruce and I met when he was on the Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA) staff in Chicago and I on the FCA National Board.
One night he was out for a walk with his Doberman on an isolated street when he saw four thugs closing in on him. He prayed for help. As Bruce tells it, the dog was a big sissy, overly friendly. Nevertheless Bruce reached down, caught the dog by the collar, and stood him up on his back legs resulting in the dog panting for air. To the thugs it looked like the dog was panting trying to break free to attack them. They fled. Prayer answered.
Bruce was on a rather small FCA staff salary and Roger was getting very wealthy playing quarterback for the Dallas Cowboys.
Bruce needed a car and was telling no one while praying for a miracle. Bruce and Roger talked frequently as Bruce taught Roger the Bible. Bruce never hinted at his need for a new car.
One night Roger called and told Bruce he had been given a new car as the NFL Player of the Year, and had just been given another as being named the Player of the Game in the Super Bowl. He asked Bruce if he could use a car. Prayer answered.
That is a wonderful way to pray at times. You don’t need to advertise for an item when you can go directly to the Giver of every good and perfect gift. I have done so many times when God said no to my petition. I accepted the facts knowing God knew better than I. There have been numerous times when God said yes.
All prayer doesn’t need to be secret, but some should be.
“But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.” (Matthew 6:6)
Like Bruce, I have done it many times and seen its effect. As a satisfied customer I recommend it. There are occasions when “You have not because you ask not.” (James 4:2)