I Am a Possibility
In l975, a delightful little book came out entitled, “The Christian Looks at Himself.” The author, Anthony Hoekema, tells of a young man, who in his fight against inferiority, put a banner on his wall reading: “I’m me and I’m good, ‘cause God don’t make no junk.”
Jesus loved everybody. His love cut across races and ages. He loved the sick, the prostitute, the thief, the religious bigot, the leper, the poor, the hungry, the rich and society’s outcasts. He accepted those the world rejected. He accepts you also. As a child you may have been rejected by a parent, you may have been an outcast in your social order, or you may have been spurned by your peers,
B-U-T Jesus loves you. That should do something for your self-image.
He came to serve and to save (Mark 10:45).
Your worth should be based on what you are worth to God, and that is a remarkably great deal because Jesus died for you.
Christian psychologist, Lawrence J. Crabb, Jr., describes our need in this manner: “The basic personal need of each person is to regard himself as a worthwhile human being.”
Knowing that not all of us will win an Olympic gold medal or have our name entered in the “Guinness Book of World Records,” how can we be enabled to feel fulfilled?
Sculpture these three concepts on a granite wall in the corridors of your memory:
One, it is not important that you be the best at anything, but that you be your best at everything.
Two, avoid comparisons. You can always find someone you are better than and get an ego buzz. You will always find someone better than you and that leads to depression.
Three, God does not call on us to be successful, only faithful.
If our happiness hinges on “doing,” we will inevitably be miserable. Biblically, it is contingent on “being.” It is found in being all that God wants you to be. These are internal traits.
The only standard against which you should be measured is the “you” God made you to be.
Christ said He came that we might have abundant life (John l0:l0). The secret to that abundant life is not your ability, but your response to God’s ability.
Resolve: “God, I want to be all you want me to be. I want to become all you saved me to become.”
Your self-worth is closely tied to your awareness of your worth to God.
If God will accept us, if in His sight we are of infinite worth, surely, we can accept ourselves. God made you and God don’t make no junk.
God rejoices when we accept His acceptance. Then we can accept ourselves.
A Worthy Example
A call to follow Jesus need not evoke fear of the loss of possessions. Even they are a gift of God and have a proper use. The thrill and blessing of being an obedient follower of Jesus is more gratifying and fulfilling than any amount of things. Surely, there are challenges and complexities along the way, but there are even great and more gratifying rewards in being His example of a changed life.
Sir Francis Drake and his daring crew were the first to sail through waters that now bear his name, the Drake Pass. In later years Drake’s sailors would sit on the rocks off the coast of England and tell stories of their sea adventures to young boys. The sailors didn’t talk of the pleasures of the sea, but of the perils and dangers. They talked about raging winds, stout waves and the gallant ships riding out the storms. Many of the boys were so challenged and inspired by their accounts they even ran away from home to be seamen.
Jesus’ call to discipleship isn’t simply a summons to a life of comfort and ease, but to a lifestyle of risk and challenge.
A call to discipleship is a call to adventure that is rewarding, gratifying, fulfilling, and productive. To follow Jesus as a disciple is to ride the high seas in high adventure. Jesus never hides the scars. They challenge others.
Be willing to take up your new identity as a follower of Christ. Others need your example.
Mahatma Gandhi had a strong interest in Jesus. A friend asked him, “If you are so intrigued with Jesus Christ, why don’t you become a Christian?”
He replied, “When I meet a Christian who is a true follower of Christ, I might consider it.”
If Gandhi had met you would he have become a follower of Christ? Take up your identity as a follower of Christ.
A youth from China came to America desiring an education and in search of greater exposure to Christianity. He had been motivated by missionaries in his home country. After observing Christian students his curiosity turned to disillusionment, and his heart and mind turned from Christianity to Marxism. He became known as Chairman Mao Tse-tung, Communist ruler of China.
He was looking for persons who had taken up their identity as followers of Jesus. If he had encountered you would he have become a follower of Christ to lead China into Christianity instead of Communism? Persons are attracted to Jesus by His followers to whom He is the central focus in their lives.
For the early disciples who heard the primal call of Jesus to “follow me,” the issue was clear: He would be the central focus of their lives?
When for us as for them, Jesus becomes the central focus of life, He alone becomes the defining influence in life.
“What is a man profited if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?” (Matthew 16: 26)
A Worthy Challenge
Want a challenge? Jesus offered as a challenge His eternal invitation: “Follow me!” Once you give Him permission to lead in your life, then life has purpose and direction.
There are certain decisions that need not be made but once. For example, a long time ago you decided to wear clothes every day. You don’t have to get up each day and wrestle with the decision, “Shall I wear clothes today or not?” Once that decision was made, then it became simply a matter of what clothes to wear.
Those disciples who decided to follow Christ and never looked back found life most adventurous and exciting. A few failed to honor their role as a disciple. Of one named Demas Paul said, “Demas, in love with the present world has deserted me.” (II Timothy 4: 10)
Pleasure is vengeful and challenges a commitment to follow Jesus. However, Jesus’ call isn’t simply an appeal to deny yourself things. It is a call to deny yourself the authority to control things in a manner contrary to His desire. He is the God of all good pleasure. He wants us to have pleasure, but the right kind. Some who suffer from “reverse-greed” have difficulty believing Jesus wore what was in His time a Brooks Brothers suit. He had a seamless robe, that was the finest garment of His day.
On an occasion an expensive ointment worth three hundred days wages was poured on his feet. He didn’t rebuke the persons doing it, but said to those who did, “The poor you have with you always, but Me you do not have always.” (Matthew 26:11)
What He was teaching is that there is a time to feed the poor, to cloth the needy, to provide shelter for the homeless, BUT there is also a time to celebrate. Hear this clearly: You are under the tyranny of things if you can’t allow yourself to have them without guilt, as much as if you must have them.
Having things is no sin. Not having them under the control and for the use of Christ is.
One of the important truths of our lives is that we must have a purpose and commitment to be vital. Our commitment focuses our lives and energizes us.
The great patriot, Patrick Henry, realized this and in his will wrote this statement: “I have now disposed of all my worldly property to my family: there is one thing more I wish I could give them, and that is the Christian religion. If they have this, and I had not given them a shilling, they would be rich; and if they had it not, and I had given them all the world, they would be poor.”
That attitude puts “things” in perspective. To follow Jesus one must put self and things under His control. He still appeals, “Follow me….”
Friends
Friends are some of life’s greatest treasures. The word “friend” in English, as in its Greek equivalent “philos” conveys the idea of loving and being loved. There is something warm and pleasant about it.
The secret of success in one’s search for friends is found in the wisdom of Solomon who wrote: “A man who has friends must himself be friendly” (Proverbs 18:24). Simple isn’t it? This concept if found in these lines:
I went out to find a friend,
But could not find one there,
Then I went out to be a friend,
And there were friends everywhere!
An English publication ran a contest seeking the best definition of a friend. The winner was: “A friend — the one who walks in when the world walks out.”
That is true because. “A friend loves at all times….” (Proverbs 17:17)
A true friend is one who asks you how you are and listens to the answer.
A friend is one who doubles your joy and divides your sorrows.
True friends are like spaghetti, they stick together.
Life is a cookie and friends are the chocolate chips.
A true friend is one who watches as you make a mess of things and doesn’t react as though you have done a permanent job.
There is a little gospel song entitled, “Jesus is a friend of Mine.” That is a wonderful proven truth. Jesus gave insight as to how we can show we are friends of His: “You are My friends if you do whatever I command you. No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you. You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain, that whatever you ask the Father in My name He may give you.” (John 15: 14 – 16)
Question, in light of that would Jesus call you His friend?
You can show you are His friend if you:
Make joy possible for those who walk in the shadow of sorrow.
Make goodness possible for those who stand in the darkness of temptation.
If you go forth day by day to minister and not to be ministered too.
If you let the message of your music become the harmony of your life.
If you share with others His love for them as for you.
Reflect, “A man who has friends must himself be friendly….” The rest of that verse affords elevated thought, “But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” (Proverbs 18:24) That friend is Jesus. Develop your friendship with Him by studying His teachings and accepting His invitation to call on Him. That invitation and His phone number is: “Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know” Jeremiah 33: 3.
Abba Father
Up in the hills of east Tennessee some years ago a young unmarried woman gave birth to her son. It was a previous era in which children born out of wedlock were ostracized and criticized. No one knew who the father of little Ben Hooper was. All his young life he was an outcast. Whenever he was in public people could be heard whispering, “Who do you think his father is?”
Parents wouldn’t let their children play with him. Adults scolded him in public. In school the teacher set him apart and none of the children would associate with him. As a result he became a virtual recluse.
A new young preacher came to town. Ben Hooper heard folks talking about the young preacher who was friendly, kind, and loving. Quietly one Sunday Ben slipped in the back door of the church and sat on the last seat in the house. He was encouraged by the pastor’s message and continued to come back. He always slipped out before the end of the service and no one spoke to him.
One Sunday Ben was so caught up in the message and warmed by the pastor’s message on love he didn’t get out quickly enough and got caught in the crowd. He looked up and right in his path was the preacher. The preacher smiled at him and said, “Whose boy are you?”
A hush fell over the crowd. The sensitive minister recovered quickly and said, “Oh, I know whose boy you are. Why, the family resemblance is unmistakable. You are a child of God.”
“That’s quite an inheritance you’ve got there, boy. Now, go and see to it you live up to it.”
Years later Ben Hooper said that was the day he first realized he was loved and had self-worth. Yes, it was years later when the outcast Ben Hooper, Governor of Tennessee, said that was the day life took on meaning for him. His awareness of his inheritance gave him a bright new outlook on life.
Ben Hooper was on his way to becoming a new creature in Christ.
An awareness of whose child he was, God the Father, changed the course of his life. The dignity of being a child of the King comes from the royal blood that flows in your veins. His DNA is your DNA. Act in a way becoming of your Father.
God is our Father and we can let His Spirit live through us in a way that is a natural reflection of who is in us. When our lives become aligned with His truth, and this truth naturally expresses itself outwardly, there is a sense of fulfillment.
Jesus prayed, “Abba Father….” (Mark 14: 36) Abba is a term of intimacy and obedience. We know it best as a beautiful term indicating intimacy, but fail to realize it as a term indicating obedience. May we pray it with the understanding of its meaning, “Here I am dear Father committed to obeying you.”
Ben Hooper’s realization that God was his father changed his life. So our lives are changed by it. Pray with a full understanding of gratitude, “Abba Father.”